Re: Marrying a Pakistani man …
So there was a reason ( what ever it may be) that Rukhasti didn’t took place i.e. the in-laws of the girl was not ready ( for whatever reason) to take in a new member…
In case you have not noticed, that Nikkah make them husband and wife, but they still do not spend time alone or go to honey moon unless the rukhsati is there… for which you already said that MUFT KA KAAM NAHI… now which part you are not getting… there are reasons for the different conditions for idat before and after rukhsati…
if one is so eager to keep the husband and wife together after the nikaah then announce the rukhsati with the nikaah..it only takes two minutes of the time… and nothing else, if one is so bound to Islam that Nikaah is final word for them then y they do not find courage to announce rukhsati with Simplicity and least of the cost… what is the problem here???