Re: Marrying a Pakistani man …
Meeting after is usually not an issue in Pakistan. The issue is ‘being together’ which is NOT approved by our elders. There is no use in arguing over this issue as no one can deny the importance of nikah and no importance of rukhsati in Islam. Its just that rukhsati is GIVEN importance in our society and like many other nagtives of our society, we have to agree to this. I agree the change is needed. Lets see how this change will be brought about.