Re: Marrying a Pakistani man …
The mom is a widow and the guy is the only brother of 5 sisters. This explains everything. We should understand the insecurities of the mother. Girls families consider such things when accepting a proposal for their daughter. The OP claims this to be a love marriage. Thus she knew what she was putting herself into and should have been prepared about the situations, although the situation turned out to be more complex than anyone would have imagined. But she should have known that her husband will be shared by 6 more women.
Its sad but I think this guy won’t ever be able to have a happy marriage with any girl in the world unless the girl is deaf, mute and blind and lives like a puppet after marriage (in short Allah mian ki Gaayee).