Marrying a non-muslim who is NOT ready to convert..

[Mirch]

Re: Marrying a non-muslim who is NOT ready to convert..

@Applejuice

Sorry for the confusion but what I meant was that, we are dealing with the relatives who live in US but when they refer to some fatwa or some Imaam, that source is coming from Pakistan. You know wut I mean? Like my khala’s and mamu’s, who do live here and are very close to us, are bringing all these.
I’m mostly worried about my mom who is under very severe stress due to all whatever is going on, especially the feedback we are recieving. Partially responsible is my bro too whose act is causing all that.

They will quote whatever matches their thinking. I quoted you things from Quran. Nothing can be more authentic than Quran.
You brother is not doing anything wrong , he is adult he can make his own decision , your mom needs to understand this , once she does she will find her peace.
Letting go of the kids is very difficult for desi parents. It is part of the parenting but desi parents are never ready for this big step of parenting.