Marrying a non-muslim who is NOT ready to convert..

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Re: Marrying a non-muslim who is NOT ready to convert..

@Saarah

Personally, I think the company would be the least of my worries in Hell…

As for the issue at hand, I think the best thing for you to do is sit your brother down and talk it out. Obviously, if he’s made up his mind, there’s nothing you can do to stop him, especially if he believes he’s in the “right” as far as Islam is concerned. But whatever happens, stick by your brother, even if he makes the wrong choice. Because it’s better for him to have the support of his family through the (undoubtedly) difficult times ahead. Being alone would just allow him, and his family, to drift further away from Islam.

By the way, the reason I’m doubtful of the fact that marrying a non-Muslim is “allowed” in this case, is because it comes with the stipulation that the children have to be raised Muslim.

My question is: how?

If the mother herself is so against Islam that she will not convert, then how will she ever let her children follow a religion she does not believe in? How will she ever allow her children to ignore what she feels is right – what she feels will get them into heaven? I just don’t believe that she’d let her children go to Hell (from her point of view).

EXACTLY!!
Thats the biggest point that’s keeping all the doubts alive. Right now they are saying it but you know, easier said than done!!