Re: Marrying a non-muslim who is NOT ready to convert..
It’s not important for saas and bahu to speak and understand the same language, it’s not like they’re going to marry each other. And your side can teach the kids Urdu, it’s not that hard. You should be happy for your brother, it’s not like he’s a teenager or something and he’s definitely not going to be the first person marrying outside his race and religion.
Be nice to your bro’s wife and you can win her heart and she might convert to Islam in future.