Marrying a hyderbadi

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Re: Marrying a hyderbadi

@rx988

First of all I was being very respectful in asking opinions from other people. I don’t think you should be calling other people’s thread ridiculous.

Second of all, it is hard to understand this mentality as no one in our family has ever talked about it but thank you explaining it.

And why even talking about punjabis, this thread is not to divide but ask opinions, seriously!!!

p.s I know this hyderabadi doctor and he is the nicest person ever and I remembering helping him tremendously and vice versa so please Chill.

You know a Hyderabadi doctor..great! Congratulations!

And I am extremely chilled, don’t worry. The reason I called this thread ridiculous is because your tone throughout has been like Hydros are some sort of alien life form or something so foreign it’s out the realm of consciousness to e even consider marrying one. One poster says that hyderabadi women are loud and overbearing and Bam! your red flags go up…one person says they know someone whose chachi ki bhanji ki nand ki devrani ki parosan married a Hyderabadi and got divorced (there’s that famous exaggeration again!) and you freak out.

Had you approached this thread asking something like “what are some cultural or ethnic differences a non Hyderabadi person may encounter when considering marrying into a Hydrabadi family” you wouldnt have come across as poking fun or condescending.

Good luck to your friend or whomever this is really about.