Marrying a hyderbadi

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Re: Marrying a hyderbadi

@khattichic

No glares buddy, fikar naat! This whole thread is so** ridiculous** I don’t have anything more to say lol

What’s the difference? Well, given that my grandparents were born in the early 1900’s and lived in pre partition India for the bulk of their lives, they held on the cultural norms of that era in that you “give” your daughters away so sending them to ghair khandaans where the taur tareeqay are completely opposite was considered a no-no. When you get your son married, he’s not going anywhere, his wife is coming in and adapting to her inlaws way of life, not vice versa...is it really that hard to understand?

Btw, my sister is getting married to a 100% punjabi guy whose family is from Lahore and they are lovely people. I couldn’t be happier for her…my bad…I should have opened up a fear mongering thread titled “would you marry a punjabi guy”…I’d love to see how that would go over

First of all I was being very respectful in asking opinions from other people. I don’t think you should be calling other people’s thread ridiculous.

Second of all, it is hard to understand this mentality as no one in our family has ever talked about it but thank you explaining it.

And why even talking about punjabis, this thread is not to divide but ask opinions, seriously!!!

p.s I know this hyderabadi doctor and he is the nicest person ever and I remembering helping him tremendously and vice versa so please Chill.