Re: Marrying a hyderbadi
Relax…it’s just a linguist quirk. I’m sure there are plenty of idiosyncrasies like this in punajbi, Sindhi etc.
Hyderabadis are not some alien life form that your friend needs to be scared of or that you are so worried about. This question you’ve posed is equally applicable to any cultural/ethnic subset. I’m a 100% Hyderabadi (albeit born in the US) as is my entire khandaan and I married into a Kutchi speaking family from Karachi. It happens. It’s all good. Everything about my inlaws, from their cooking to their rahen-sahen to their language (not Urdu!) was foreign to me and I survived…16 years later still going strong! My husband gets on fabulously with my big fat Hydro family and they love him to bits.
And no, it should not be a deterrent tho your friend that “women are loud and run the show”.