Marrying a hyderbadi

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Re: Marrying a hyderbadi

@Spiral

Personally I don’t think OP’s intentions were bad..its the people who commented afterwards how their everything is so much better than hydro’s yet want to marry a hydro.
For people who didn’t read everything, the comparison between hydros and punjabis were brought not by OP but the other two offensive poster … Who think everything Punjabi is better, and hydros should be looked down upon. I think they are getting into forced marriage or something. If I had such negative views about someone, I would make my life easy and won’t marry them. Simple as that.

Interesting that you’re complaining about people stereotyping and then making this HUGE leap to assume that people are being forced into marriages. I don’t look down on my in laws (I wouldn’t be MARRYING THE GUY I’VE BEEN WITH FOR 3 YEARS IF THAT WAS THE CASE) and I don’t think I’m superior than them. I was pointing out differences that I’ve noticed. If you and your hydro friends aren’t like that, cool.

No one’s intention (at least RV or mine) was to belittle hydros…I said my family is different and I specified that I was basing this off of my IN LAWS so it could be just them and not hydro culture. There’s no need to get so worked up and rude. Punjabis get **** on in conversations ALL the time as the “paindu” “rude” “loud” group with no class. I’ve gotten it from close friends. So I don’t know why I would go and say something that hurtful about another group. If it came across like that, my bad.

I don’t know if you’re hydro or not, and frankly don’t care, but your attitude towards people in those post show that YOU have a problem with arrogance and thinking you’re better than other people. Don’t try to draw conclusions about my relationship/marriage based on something I said with the qualifier of it being MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.