Re: Marrying a hyderbadi
This thread was amazing…lol.
And what I said was nothing less than the truth. Your intentions could have been to build a mosque in Hyderabad…but does it matter?
Let me show you what I mean when I talk about sensibilities and why someone would get offended:
See in my experience with Punjabis…the loud factor is with both male and female. But how would you know who’s louder when you’re not aware of how loud you are?
Explain what you meant by this?
Its not they…its all desis. Every single desi I have met is a master of exxaggeration.
Why would it not be okay to marry into a Hyderabadi family? Is it okay to marry into a Punjabi family considering they also have the same exact traits your friend is so afraid of?
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^punjabis are awesome and punjabis are very good host./QUOTE]
If you don’t think your posts come across as condescending…then I don’t know does. Now in your mind, you’re thinking “what? she’s taking this the wrong way!” Putting it the right way is YOUR job…not anyone else’s.
Your intentions don’t matter…your form of expression does. We have no idea nor is it our business to find out what you meant…its what you put out there that matters. And what you put out was not very nice…now if you think you deserve a gold star for this at the end of the day…its just not gonna happen.
This is the truth.