rx988
March 25, 2015, 2:03am
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Re: Marrying a hyderbadi
Awww…was that a jab at me? Adorable.
Okay, so you both found it rude? I didn’t mean to offend. In my defense, I wasn’t upset or angry writing this post. I was simply stating my opinion…not trying to hurt you.** But its interesting how it did. **
In the same way…you posted a thread that implied Hyderabadi people are some sort of alien life form (in the words of Khatti). As if they have antlers sprouting out of their heads…or seven toes or something of that nature. I can almost hear you asking “what are they?” LOL. And it offended some people…they found it rude and obnoxious. I am not Hyderabadi and even I found it obnoxious
Anyway, if you take anything away from this thread…it should be that even if you married into a Punjabi family, it makes no difference. You will still have a learning curve because every family has their own lifestyle. What was important for your mother will not be important for your MIL and vice versa. You will adjust to how they cook, live, talk and even learn to interact with their social circle. If you cannot keep an open mind then marriage is not a good idea right now. Your friend is marrying INTO another family…they’re not marrying into her’s. She will have to adjust…not them.
Why is it** interesting** to you that your remarks were either rude or they hurt someone?