marrying a half paki

How do you feel about marrying a half paki and half (lets say white) girl or a boy, and they have been raised in pakistan, are muslim and even their mother or father converted to islam before getting married. And their parent even reside in Pakistan. But they still keep in touch with their other half, i mean with family and stuff
sunset lvr, this is somewhat similiar to your thread, but this is not for desi’s marrying non-desi;s this is for marrying a half Pakistani

hmm....i don't see any problems in this actually. i even think that the 'other' half would have a good impact on their development and thinking

what silly threads have been popping up. First marrying a non paki, now half paki, what next 1/4 paki?

People get real, marry who YOU want no matter what he or she is, paki or not, muslim or not, whatever floats your boat.

Amidst all other things being considered for marriage, like compatibility in things considered important, this half-pakistani thing should be a non-issue.

I once considered a half Pakistani-half Italian guy. I looked at his other qualities, though some extended family members did think it was a bit peculiar. But my immediate family liked him very much. smile

Ghaz, you’re right. A person needs to be judged on factors other than the nitty-gritty of whether he is 1/2 or 1/3 or 1/4 or 1/8 or 1/100th-part Pakistani or whatnot.

Munni, a Pakistani-Italian mixed-blood Pakistani? Wow :hug: Hehe…

salam
hey mahnoor, thats interesting....but i don't think i would mind as long as they are born or converted muslim and true to their faith.

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what silly threads have been popping up. First marrying a non paki, now half paki, what next 1/4 paki?
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People get real, marry who YOU want no matter what he or she is, paki or not, muslim or not, whatever floats your boat.
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about this...it was just a simple question as to what ppl's opinions about it where. in our culture, it is not a very common thing to marry a non-desi or even a half paki, just asking everyone's opinon.. no one said they are/aren't going act (marrry) upon it.

yeah..sweetpie...i would like to see that pakistani-italian guy too!;)..seems like a nice combination

Salaam Mahnoor.
My husband married with a Half Paki with me lolz
Im Half Pakistani Half Surinam that's near Brazillia (i think)
But im a Muslim Alhumdolilah.
Uhmm i live in Holland with my hubby.
And yes he still be in touch with his family i n Pak.
Im not so related with my family in Surinam and never gone their.
I really like to go their with my mom.

Nilu.

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GHAZ-i don't think you care much becaz you are not half, and you don't care what ppl think about this issue while "I M" on the other hand, i m half pakistani and half american. My mom is white and we live in lahore, pakistan and we are not easily accepted every where, i mean it took a while for my dads family to accept my mom.

nilu-thank you for sharing your experience.

and thanx everyone else for their feedback!

Re: marrying a half pakistani

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How do you feel about marrying a half paki and half (lets say white) girl or a boy, and they have been raised in pakistan, are muslim and even their mother or father converted to islam before getting married. And their parent even reside in Pakistan. But they still keep in touch with their other half, i mean with family and stuff
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I would have no problem with it.

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**Amidst all other things being considered for marriage, like compatibility in things considered important, this half-pakistani thing should be a non-issue.
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i agree with Sehar.

Yes how fast are you people to judge a person huh? :rolleyes: What makes you think I’m not half??? again some of the people on this forum are soo up tight, its no wonder you just stay in your own little world!

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I will prefer to marry to that half pakistani girl whose other half will also be pakistani.

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*Originally posted by GHAZ: *
what silly threads have been popping up. First marrying a non paki, now half paki, what next 1/4 paki?

People get real, marry who YOU want no matter what he or she is, paki or not, muslim or not, whatever floats your boat.
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well ghaz just anyone can float YOUR boat while mine at least can't with just anybody to you it might not matter it is a muslim or not but i think some of us out there do.....so don't speak for everyone

to me its ideal ;)

where is the girl? i’m ready :smiley: :blush:

don't worry..all pakis are half-pakis..they are half Indians.:-)