Marrying a guy "not from here"

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Re: Marrying a guy “not from here”

@tipusulatn

It is very difficult, as there are not enough boys around and bringing someone is huge risk.

In our parents generation it was common to take these risks,

In my case my 25 years old is completely loss, as most Pakistani back home specially from upper middle class (where parents r rich enough to invest in good education) even in Pakistan are openly drinking and taking drug as matter of fashion.

And if we look at middle class background no doubt there are good people available but given the state of education system there most of local degrees not worth the pecs of paper printed on.

I have seen someone married her daughter from back, now the boy is living here for 4 years without any decent job.

Another issue even if you could find a good professionally educated guy, then start facing mentality issues not with the guy but with his whole family, as mostly those families does nor allow their “Star” to move to foreign land.

My parents feel exactly the same way as what you have written.

Also i find there are unrealistic requirements from more of the upper middle class of how beautiful the girl should be, they all want some hoor pari as well as very educated and decent, but their own children will be openly drinking and taking drugs and running around with girlfriends.