I’m not really making drastic generalisations, I’m merely interpreting the case with the majority of Pakistanis, like always there are exceptions to the rule … my statement was the general trend, your hubby would indeed be the exception - which is good for you.
Other factors that also include making it work are: How Religious the people are? If the couple are cousins/related? If the man is the son of an elder sibling who is living in the West whose daughter is to be married. If the families are already rich despite being in Paksitan … My generalisations could go on … for a sure thing … If your husband is as good as you say he is then it is likely that he has come from the Pakistani middle class. Perhaps I’m wrong.
I was making no attempt to demean them in any way, just stating a trend.