anyone been in this situation?..problems..?..experiences?..feelings?..
..care to share please
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Pendos are really honest and decent peoples. Not crafty like city folks.
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In my personal experience, people from small cities (not villages) are in general more sincere than people from big cities. Its not about generalizing things, but a natural consequence. One thing that I have personally observed that girls from small cities are in general really great !!
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i am a villager..see how i am lol hehe...i lived half of my life in a village 24/7 in village ...
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Well I just hope you're not planning on bringing a village wala husband to Amreeka:@:
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its surely depends to some extent where someone brought up. level of awareness, values and ethics differs. but personality, sincerity is down the very people he hangs out with. see his friends and people he hangs out with, what type of person and what they actually do in life. you will get pretty much an answer!
last and not the least - many people in big cites lives in ghettos and ghettos mentality, and in small villages/towns some people live in very educated and enlightened environment.
so you cant judge from just from the place a person is from!
In my personal experience, people from small cities (not villages) are in general more sincere than people from big cities. Its not about generalizing things, but a natural consequence. One thing that I have personally observed that girls from small cities are in general really great !!
I actually agree with this. I went to Pak twice so far and Ive realized that people from Lahore are total !@#%&$&*^$ whereas the small city folks like Multan, Bahawalpur are really friendly and are not snobbish.
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Agree with Amour, the best way to really get an idea of what a person is like is by checking out their friends, the old desi cliches of good parents=good kids or siblings being similar in morals and behaviour simply isn't true.
anyone been in this situation?..problems..?..experiences?..feelings?..
..care to share please
i find village people can be sweet can be rude and can be jahil aswell mixed.
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I don't really struggle with those questions...
Village guy?
Really?
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My cousin (female) is married to another cousin (male) who is originally from a village (born there), but then lived in Karachi after he turned 12. All his education and up-bringing was in Karachi and ugh, gaaliyaan tau aisay nikaltee hain muun sai kay buss and my cousin is not allowed to wear short-sleeves. He has an MBA degree and lives in Canada, is very nice otherwise. This cursing habit and rok tok on clothes are dirivng my female cousin crazy.
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According to my personal experience and observations around couples in families, i strongly believe that there IS a difference in the lifestyle,thinking,concepts and ideas between people from big cities and small cities and I would recommend anyone from both setups for any relation BUT a marital one UNLESS it is a blind love marriage.
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I would not worry soni27, after what I have read of your posts you seem pretty 'backward' I'm sure you'll fit in fine ;)
i dont want to comment on their behaviour .........
i simply want to say that they are "He Man". coz they eat nutrious food and not junk food like urban cities.
if there is any girl who lives abroad who has married a guy straight from the pind..i mean he has lived there like his whole life before he married you then please pm me..
no jokes please..i m serious..
Oh come on soni27, are you saying that you don't know any girl that married a village guy? I know about 20 and I'm white! Surely someone from your family must have.
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maybe she really doesnt know someone...its not that common in some areas!
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Guys from the pind are of two types..
Type A guys are the hardcore romantics who never get enough of their mehboba, manug or their to-be-wife. They are sincere, soft hearted, respectful towards the family of their future bride and willing to adapt. They have shareef parents who are in general god fearing and generous. These kind of guys are not greedy coz they are the numurdar (landlords ) of the pind... If you wish to get a sincere partner, i believe it is one of the best options.
Type B guys are sick sex addicts who think that their bewi is paoon ki joti and nothing more. The parents of such guys constantly feed them with the crap that a guy can get away with everything. Therefore, in order to prove their masculanity, they leave no stone unturned. A guy of type B is arrogant, mean, egoistic and unbearable. Hes like the ugly villan in punjabi films and can harm you and your personality in many ways.
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If you are to marry a guy from a village or small city, make sure that you will not feel superior to them if you are from city.. I have seen this happen and initially things can be well but later on, the girl can say u are a mere villager and I am better than you. This is terrible and better to realize and prevent it.