Marrying a divorced or a widow/ widower

[diwana]

Re: Marrying a divorced or a widow/ widower

@mirage

its not the matter of heart and mind here, neither do I mean to enforce people into such a choice folks. Ofcourse we all have our own parameters and we do follow them. complexion, looks, education social status all may matter. It is just this attitude that some people predecide oh all right that person is divorced so there must be something fishy or bad about it and that person is instantly removed from the list of options. What we need actually to change this kind of mentality. Because yes why not most of the time one person has to pay for another’s faults/mistakes and their marriage doesnt get along well. We need to take a stand in such a situation and a person’s personal character shoul be individually considered apart from the stigma of divorce they are bearing.

It’s not?

Then what? Sex/Children/MIL wish? j/k

I agreed to your other points already in post 10.

Basicallly it should be left on the person’s choice. If rejected for any reason, no grudges should be felt. Everyone has a choice which one feels strongly about. That’s all.

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And, on a different note as discussed and proposed ealier by some;

One should not marry other for pity reason. Unless other knows and agrees with it. Most will not agree with that.