marrying a divorced girl

Last month I saw a girl at my friends party, My friend is moving from Karachi so she called over few people kinda get together .

there I saw her very reserve and a bit shy not talking to any one so I went up to her introduced my self and start talking she was a bit reserve at first but after a while she was fine,

I found out that she got married when she was 19 , her husband died after 3 years of shadi and she is 23 now with 2 kids both girls 1-2 year old …

I felt very sorry for her and kept thinking about her whole week then I asked my friend to give me her number and she said she cant do it but If I want to meet her she can arrange so I met her again and asked her number she refused and told me that she is still living in her SUSRAL and cannot talk to boys and her parents and in laws will kill her ,

I am not in love with her at all but I really wanted to do something for her God sake just 23 and she will spend rest of her life in her susral with no husband ,

My friend suggested if I am serious she can talk to her parents about Shadi I was not sure and few days back I talked to my elder brother about it , he was fine but My mom told me if I marry her she will not see my face again , my bro suggested that If I do that after a while mom will understand and forgive .

BUT when my brother and friend went to see her parents they refused and said We already married our daughter once , My friend talked to her about it and her susral calls her Hamaray ghar ki izat batay ki nishani and stuff ..

so she called me this morning and begged me not to send any one to her parents and leave her alone because her parents were completely out of order went to susral and slapped her and told her if she keep any relation with me they will let her susral know ..

I really really feel very sorry for that girl,

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I feel for her. She is only 23 years old and the people around her have shut down all hopes for her future.

Why is she still living in susraal?

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how sad! :(

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Stay away from her. Unless you wants lots of trouble in your life....like her parents and susural folks coming after you.

because her surali see her daughters as a batay ki nishani and ghar ki izat and S*it

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thats really sad .. and worse is the fact that both the families ... her susraal and her own parents dun want her to be happy again ...

her parents can rate themselves lucky that even after having two kids somebody is willing to marry their daughter again ...

but on the other hand u should really be careful with everything u do ... u neva know what she might has to face on the other end ...

this sounds like a drama serial..

clad i cannot believe guys like u still exist in this world..how sweet

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I don't get it, the title is marryign a divorced woman?

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bhaga ker shadi ker lo...

why so much thinking ?

yeah hubby divorced her and then she killed him....

happy now ? :D

busted! lol

oh well, he did fool the first 3-4 ppl who responded :hehe:

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Clad, why is the title about a divorced girl? You said that her husband is dead. You didn’t mention her being divorced. Unless…she got a divorce first…and then her husband died. In which chase…she shouldn’t even be living with her susraal. :rolleyes:

damn

:omg:

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^YEAH rv.

de film 'babul' also comes to mind

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**Sad :(:(:( Poor girl. 23 yrs old bewa n living in her susraal :(
Her own parents aren't willing to get her married again?
Don't know what to say :(

**

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Star Plus Wednesday at 9 PM right? I dvr'ed it.

He/She meant to say widowed girl. Sometimes people make mistakes you know.

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This isn't a mistake , it's a blunder.

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So, if he meant widowed...that reminds me of the movie, Mohabatein...where one of the girls (who is widowed) lives with her in-laws...who prevent her from getting married because they feel her presence sort of keeps their son "alive".

And then in the end they allow her to go to the party and they all dance and sing "pairon main bandhan hain, payal nay machaya shor...".