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she will never use loota (a thing, we all desi are blessed with). :@:
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I like how everyone is saying 'go for it, marry a gori' - i'd just like to know how many of you actually considered or have married a white person in real life? don't get me wrong, i don't have an issue with it at all, i just think it's easy for people to say 'yeah great go for it' without actually putting themselves in that situation.
Also Noodle - the term caucasian also applies to asian (and by asian i mean brown) people. just so you know.
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I like how everyone is saying 'go for it, marry a gori' - i'd just like to know how many of you actually considered or have married a white person in real life? don't get me wrong, i don't have an issue with it at all, i just think it's easy for people to say 'yeah great go for it' without actually putting themselves in that situation.
Me :)
There are quite a few others on GS as well..
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Your risk receiving evil looks from them busy body aunties. They were secretly hoping you'd marry one of their daughters....or even worse....THEMSELVES! You've narrowly escaped their clutches...into the arms of a gori...and they're going to be bitter about it. In their private moments they will croon Katy Perry's, "The One That Got Away" in a thick fobby accident. Of course it all happened due to the evil eye or black magic. They will warn their sons about you...."Beta, don't follow in the disgraceful footsteps of Shehryar. Have some laaj for our izzat." Not to mention that they will also resent that increased chances of you producing gori, chitti offspring the won't have to rely upon Fair and Lovely or colored contacts.
But yeah....that's all that you risk. No biggie.
Lol RV, now that was funny, guppans here can learn a lot from you. To be honest I am already too much of a pig for their liking, so I am pretty sure they won't lose any sleep over it.
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she will never use loota (a thing, we all desi are blessed with). :@:
not true at all.
many non-desi folks prefer to cleanse with water......
and if she marries a desi then she will surely become "properly trained".
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No, I’m sorry but Caucasians are white people.
Asians are well asians. Pakistanis, Indonesians, Indians, Thais, Chinese even Filipinos.
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In medicine caucasians are the white population.
In anthropology caucasian can include asians
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I know people usually refer caucasians as white people, and that’s the general use. but the scientific term would also apply to brown people. i have a friend who works as a police office and she told me that the term they can also use for asians is also caucasian. look it up. it doesn’t actually refer to white skin:
“The term Caucasian race (also Caucasoid, Europid, or Europoid[SUP][1]](Caucasian race - Wikipedia)[/SUP]) has been used to denote the general physical type of some or all of the populations of Europe, North Africa, the Horn of Africa, Western Asia (Middle East), Central Asia and South Asia.[SUP][2]](Caucasian race - Wikipedia)[/SUP] Historically, the term has been used to describe the entire population of these regions, without regard necessarily to skin tone”
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In medicine caucasians are white the population.
In anthropology caucasian can include asians
Danke.
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Acha ab naraz mat ho..main khud hi raseela ban jaonga. Balkai samjho ban gaya raseela tumharai liye.
Xtron raseela hua rv ke liye..
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Caucasian or Asian....point is TheNoodle meant gori (white).
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sighs
Tell me isn't Pakistan in Asia? Or would you rather believe its in Europe.
Because Caucasians come from Europe not Asia.
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Meh. TDLR.
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Goris or Goras can be excellent spouses or can be terrible ones.
and I believe people will talk no matter who you marry. and they nag you if you aren't married yet ;)
so really why do people care so much about what other people say?
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expectations and desire have very different effects, though it is possible for another to adjust within a different culture, some things they will not just understand aka why some idiot in your family will be indifferently rude to them for no apparent reason.** the issue is not that your family is willing to accept it or if your willing to do it, but will others in your community be able to accept it. Or are you willing to let go of those people and most cases that is really hard because you still love those people.** It is particularly hard for these interracial and ethnic marriages due to the fact that majority of desi community is on crack, if not your family, then some one else will surely have something to say. the real question is are you willing to put your partner through that? **You have to weigh your expectations with your desire... and whatever more important is all that matters in the end... right? **yah i think so :P
Agree with this. Family/"community" will "talk". BOTH people in the relationship need to understand and accept that fact that they're "different". They both need to decide whether or not they're willing to put each other #1....above everyone else in their life. It's about deciding what matters to YOU and what you're willing to give up/deal with in order to be with that person.
I have a khala whose husband is white. They're been married almost 30 years.
I have another cousin who got engaged to a white guy a few months ago...wedding next summer.
One of my closest guy friends is married to a Chinese girl.
My fiance has 2 desi guy friends who're with white girls (one is married, the 2nd couple engaged).
Other than the above....both fiance and I know quite a few other couples who're in "mixed marriages"....either religiously or culturally. Heck my relationship is technically "mixed" too....we're both desi but the culture is totally different.
At the end....I think the "concept" of what can go wrong is not much different in a mixed marriage versus a marriage where everything is "picture perfect". At the end of the day....if both people are not willing to put each other as their #1 priority....then the marriage has a major chance of failing.
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Mostly desi are with below average goriyaan . If you really wana do it , make sure you hit it out of the park . She better be so hot that it melts your brain out . :k:
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I think Eurasians are better :D
only because I am one.
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Nothing.
They can learn Urdu, learn the cooking, the religion, the ways, etc.
My mom is really social. A few years ago, we got an invitation for dinner to this auntie's house. Last minute, my dad couldn't make so my mom called to cancel and the auntie said don't worry...my bahu will come to pick you up. Obviously, the hosts must have made dinner and gone through some trouble so my mom agreed.
The bahu was a white girl. We were surprised and then shocked...because she spoke perfect Urdu. She didn't speak any English whatsoever to my mom or us. On the way, we heard about how after marriage she worked very hard to learn the language, food and culture so she could understand and be a part of the family.
I believe if you try...these things CAN become trivial. After all, we grow up with dual cultures, language, food and customs in the US...do we not?
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