Marrying a caucasian...

What could go wrong?

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if faith is matched and future spouses are also willing to accept cultural differences, i dont see any wrong.

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are they muslim or non muslim?

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^^ I agree with above, if all the types of clicks do click, there should be no bounds. I mean, we as pakistanis have spread across the globe, adapted the respective countries & cultures, this will eventually happen.

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bache goray paida hon ge :chai:

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Does faith really matter? And I am pretty sure muslim men can marry Catholics

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it is matter of choice. but again off spring needs more care than usual.

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That’s a good thing for desi’s pagel :smilestar:

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be open minded and explore your all your options folks

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If you care for nihari , paya , biryani , polao , paratha , shami kababs , sheer khorma , kheer then forget it. I mean forget the chance to enjoy those foods from heavens not the chance to paida goray bach-chay.

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^You could always teach your SO to make those.. or just buy them from the shop :D

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Your risk receiving evil looks from them busy body aunties. They were secretly hoping you'd marry one of their daughters....or even worse....THEMSELVES! You've narrowly escaped their clutches...into the arms of a gori...and they're going to be bitter about it. In their private moments they will croon Katy Perry's, "The One That Got Away" in a thick fobby accident. Of course it all happened due to the evil eye or black magic. They will warn their sons about you...."Beta, don't follow in the disgraceful footsteps of Shehryar. Have some laaj for our izzat." Not to mention that they will also resent that increased chances of you producing gori, chitti offspring the won't have to rely upon Fair and Lovely or colored contacts.

But yeah....that's all that you risk. No biggie.

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ager in ko khud pakana aata ho tu shadi keyun kareen?

:chai:

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Gorays loves noodles...they make pasta all the time. Khoob jamay gi!

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Yo i know some gori girls..who make really good desi food.

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:rotfl:

:wink:

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Last year this Hispanic woman...(married to a desi guy) made pretty darn good chanay. They weren't watery or pheekay. I was impressed...but then their cuisine tends to have some of the same spices ours does

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expectations and desire have very different effects, though it is possible for another to adjust within a different culture, some things they will not just understand aka why some idiot in your family will be indifferently rude to them for no apparent reason. the issue is not that your family is willing to accept it or if your willing to do it, but will others in your community be able to accept it. Or are you willing to let go of those people and most cases that is really hard because you still love those people. It is particularly hard for these interracial and ethnic marriages due to the fact that majority of desi community is on crack, if not your family, then some one else will surely have something to say. the real question is are you willing to put your partner through that? You have to weigh your expectations with your desire... and whatever more important is all that matters in the end... right?
yah i think so :P

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Yo princess i make good noodles and pasta all the time. Wanna come over..i will make coffee for you. Khoob jamay gi..

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Uff..why is it always coffee with you …like it’s wine or something. I don’t even like coffee! :snooty:

Not that I drink wine either…