Marry outside your tribe...

Somebody once quoted a Hadith in which some people came to the Holy Prophet :saw: and complained their children kept being born with deformities to which the Prophet :saw: advised them to marry outside their tribes…

I can’t rememver it exactly but it went something along the lines of “take a wife from a another tribe, a wife for your son from a different tribe, and a wife for your grandson from yet a different tribe…”

Can someone tell me if this is saheeh (authentic) or not, and post a reference to it?

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well i dun ve ne reference to it but i m sure it's true bczu i ve seen it in my family!!
abnormal kidz n miscarriages!!

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Scientifically it makes sense...

I suppose there was just far too much intermarrying

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I don’t know which caste you belong to, but marrying outside rajputs is strictly prohibited in our biraadari.. Rajputs are aryans and if they marry lower-caste ppl like dhobi or chamaar, the child can be mentally retarted..I guess it is safer to marry withing your own biraadari- my 2 cents :blush:

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The biraadari syatem is responsible for many birth defects.

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This is the most unislamic post I have ever read - are you sure you aren’t a hindu?

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I read a post last night , where some one called you mentally retard and you was furious and stated that I m not handicapped. Yes u are not .

Many times on forum you have proudly stated that I m Sunni Muslim , Alhamd one should proud to be a Muslim .

But you know who is a Muslim ? A Muslim is one who follows ALLAH’s message delivered by His messenger Muhammad ( PBUH).

And what Muhammad ( PBUH ) said in his last sermon

He said :

All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action.

Now read these lines and check your own words , should we as a Muslim carry such mentality ?

I don’t normally respond your post because in end they all get removed , so no point replying them .

Lakin Allah kay banday kuch tu khuufff.khuda karoo , jis Nabi ki ummat kahtay hoo khud ko , kia moaah daika ho gay us ko !

Now if wana carry on with same mentality , go on but don’t call yourself Muslim , who knows Muhammad and his Lord would take it as a Personal insult .

This is my £ 1 , as u cant get much outta cents these days !

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Moin, that was not funny at all. really sad...

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:k:

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His message was one nation under one God..

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sorry Aliyish bhai and Minerva sister if my post hurt you both, but I am also not in favor of castes. I am just saying is that one wants to pass on racial features to the next gen and thats why I and a lot of ppl in Pakistan want- nothing wrong with it, right? Even some whites want to date/marry only whites- so are they racist? No, they are not. They have their own choices. They are friends and nice with latinos, blacks Asians. Some whites on the other hand want to marry chinese- its just prefernece and what you want. Most of the Rajputs want their aryan features and intelligence to be carried on in their next gen- as simple as that. I dont understand whats so un-religious about this.

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hadith parh ke ye bolay to tumhayn chikna ghaRa na bolayn to kia bolayn .... ye M.R./M.H.??

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Never knew intelligence was heriditary. However judging from your posts maybe the Rajputs need to diversify their intelligence portfolio.

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Inetlligence must be heridetary. Judge that from M.U.A's posts. His kind of intelligence cannot be developed. It can only be acquired.

Sorry M.U.A, everyone was joking, I did that too. I think that you are entlitled to your opinion, just like all of us.

But keeping yourself restricted to biradree system has lots of cons, too. What if you cannot find a suitable match for a girl of your family in biradree, that poor girl will sit at home and become old.

Then in biradree system, people hesitate to educate their girls, as they dont want girls to be more educated then the prospect boys, hence the same result

How about financial match. Its hard to believe that all Rajputs are equally rich or poor. What if the girl is extremely rich and prospect boys are very poor.

You restrict yourself to biradree system and at the end, looks and intelligence look like secondary issues to be worried about

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I can’t believe you guys take Mr Rajput seriously. :rotfl:

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abay, be careful he may ignore the gharra part read the chikna part and attribute it to his rajputness :D

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:omg:

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Yeah we can understand why you'd want kids that have your thopra. But your intelligence? Tsk. That's just child abuse.

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Sweet_T, you really enjoyed that Chikna comment of Pir Sahib. Yoo know, its not fun being chikna, all the times

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^^ indeed not , specially if tariq bahi is around :0