Well said, it is a two way traffic. The problem rises when one spouse starts thinking that only he has the right of positive criticism on his spouse's activities and expect a positive response.
YEAH..and that spouse is usually the husband! they need to stop their macho machiseesmo im the man u must obey me stuff..i can do whatever i wnt but u have to do what i say!..
acha ok here goes..main yeh poochre thi ke agair aap ke shohar ko yeh baat bilkohl pasand neh thi ke app apne sahelions keh saat time spend kare jaise ke onke saat phone par baat karna ya onse milna laiken osne officially yeh baat nehi kaha keh 'tum apni friends se nehi milsakti aur ose bilkohl cut off ho jao'..so agir apke husband ko aap ka apne freinds ke saat relationsihp rakna pasand nehi heh laiken osne kabhi apko mana nehi kia..tho phir kia aap apne freinds ko apni zindagi se nikaldengi?..aap apne mian ki baat manjaingi? YA phir aap apne husband ko ignore kardehngi aur apni sahelions se dosti khaim rakengi bilkohl pehle ki tarha?...
AB to aap samaj gai naaaaa...?...i hope so..:)
Ahoo ji achchi tarha aur main pehlay kuch aur hi samajh baithi thil.......apnay uper hasing.