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^^yea
Re: married ppl......money problems..
^^yea
interesting..
i don’t think my mom was that into fashion or clothes or shoes or makeup like I htink i am (and will be
)…but she did love her gold. :halo:
if wifey is working sumwhere life is a lot easier but when ur just sitting at home u really have to work hard n cry for the money all the time thats what i do..
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^^ its nt jst ur problem.. a lot of women r facng these problms
^^ its nt jst ur problem.. a lot of women r facng these problms
yeah seems like
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hosala rakho
hosala rakho
well u too
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:D
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We have a joint account for all the bills and easy access to money for the wife and myself. I never questioned my wife why/where she used money. She doesn't work and is a full-time house maker. She had a habit of taking some cash from the joint account each month. It turned out to be that she had collected about $20K. I suggested her to put this money into a bank account. I opened her personal account and deposited all the money there. She somehow doesn't use any money from that account. Sometimes I wonder what's her agenda toward all this personal saving. She calls it all her money and I am fine with it.
I don't think there should be any barrier when it comes to money between a husband and wife. However we husbands do expect our wives to use the money wisely.
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yea right whtever.....i thnk all men r jst tryng to be nice here
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^ your point is???
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well u shuld knw wht i mean
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^ no I don't. Are you saying that I am trying to win any award here?
We need to respect each other and have some tolerance. That is all.
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a husband shud give his wife all the money she wnats if he cant den he shud let her earn herself. stupid tight ass men
and i believe u n every other hsbnd out there has every right 2 expect that 4rom their biwis. i wouldnt want my future husband to blow off my hard-earned money on fazool karchi. so he has full right 2 expect that 4rom me. lots of pakistani women just like 2 spend n spend just 2 fulfill their selfish n greedy desires.. like buying expensive clothes, furntiure n jewellery.. such wome’s shohars need 2 put their foot down!![]()
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^^ i dnt gt ur point here..but its ok,....
either ur against men or women..but its nt clear
abay yaara .. its easy if you make it easy.. husband and wife na hogaye federal vs provincial government hogiye.. after shaadi both of them need to think as a "us" not "me".. so its "our" money .."our" future.. "our" problem..
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yes i agree with ansoon, after marriage, its us...our money........even if both are earning, its our.......one and the same thing.......
mashallah....
i wish my hubby wud trust me that much with his credit card...:D
yeah even though i earn, but still we do have a joint account and my husband says that his money is my money and my money is good to save in case the need arises or when we buy a bigger house.....i am open to spend and take out money when ever i wish to so that i way i dont have to ask my husband to give me money.......
ummm correct me if i'm wrong but shudn't it be ur husband's responsibility to take care of ur needs not ur parents ???
yeah i agree with sheyn, its now ur husbands responsibility to take care of all ur needs, plus doesnt ur husband say anything when u ask ur parents
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my husband pays for everything, my money is mine but he encourages me to save for myself. we also have a joint account for joint savings........he's never denied me anything, which is sweet and if something i feel is a bit OTT in price i go get it myself (i,e shoes and bag and clothes lol ) xx