My wife doesn’t tell me many of the problems in her family and i don’t ask her nor do i try to indulge in their family matters. For me, i usually tell her bcoz i am “pait ka halka”, but at times when i really feel like not sharing with her, i don’t tell her. During initial days of our marriage this made my wife ucomfortable and she asked me why i am not telling her and i would say, bcoz it doesn’t concern you and you don’t have to tell me every issue in your family.