If the brakes fail the train will be hard to stop anywhere , let alone at a station. A drunk is like a train who’s brakes are malfunctioning and he will pass through each station on its way unless someone hits something heavy on his head.
As much as I'd like to believe he did it b/c maybe he was drunk, it is not true. One of my non-muslim friends who is very much into clubbing (good guy and all) told me that the ONLY reason men are at clubs are to pick up girls and drink, he said any guy who gives you an excuse that he was relaxing or whatever is lying.
Inspiron you are a highly educated gal and being a professional doc.....you will be desirable to a lot of respectable families.
Now my question to you is that when a young, attractive, woman ( like you)is out in a club scene with her female friends what message does that send? True what the hell is a married man doing out at a club scene at 12 at night? I understand from your other threads that you recently finished your medical exams and need a break. However, we need to reflect on our actions. No I absolutely don't think that Thant man especially if he was married should have hit on you. However, being at the wrong place at the wrong time does put you at a risk. I totally understand that your parents have given you permission to find a husband but I honestly wonder if this is the new trend to look for prospective husbands at the club scene especially for Muslims. I don't think it matters if you are conservative or liberal. For example if a young woman wears a mini skirt, low neck top and high heels and ghair men are oogling at her and she doesn't get at why people are giving her the wrong type of attention. I am sure you are a very sweet girl but I would suggest that if do go out with your friends esp with the intention of meeting a prospective husband then why not go during the day when the probability of this type of attention is lower. I would be more comfortable meeting a prospect match prospective a t a library, hospital, university then a. Club or lounge.
Btw: good looking men are way overrated ! Morals, upbringing, education, fear of Allah are more attractive qualities for a man.