Now don’t get me wrong, I love my wife and all. But there are times I really long for my days of being single, I could do whatever the hell I wanted when I wanted. If I wanted to drive up to Canada for the long weekend or stay up till 3am playing Call of Duty/Halo, no one would bug me or nag me about it, and I wouldn’t have to consult anyone. If I want to get up at 5 am and go for a run I wouldn’t have to explain where I am going to anyone.
You can sleep when you want, where you want etc…do whatever you feel like, ahhhhhhhh man how I miss those days.
Plus I hate the mood swings women have, sometimes their just pissed or mad, or cry for no god damn reason and its really irritating. It sucks cause they want you to comfort them, but whatever you do just pisses them of more and more. Freakin head cases all of them.
Ideally I would wish that, I just had a few good Muslim wives, but that they lived in their own apartments and I had my own place, now that’s the dream life. Sometimes marriage feels like you are caged in.
Sorry about the rant, but do any of you married guys feel caged in like that, do you sometimes just want your own damn space and want your wife to go away for a week or two.
Re: Married men - Do you ever wish you were single again???
Send your wife to her Maikey for a month, I am sure you will call her back in a week.
:)
yee dhunwaan, yeee shoor, yee hangama na raha tu kidher jaeen gaay
pollution main saans lainey k ho gaeey hai aadee, aab saaf hawa mili tu mur jaeen gaay
Re: Married men - Do you ever wish you were single again???
I can understand - women probably feel the same. I'm not married yet, but when I do get married, I'm sure there's going to be times I'm going to miss being single.
Like someone else said, send your wife over to her mayka's. :P You'll want her back within a week haha.
Re: Married men - Do you ever wish you were single again???
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Ideally I would wish that, I just had a few good Muslim wives, but that they lived in their own apartments and I had my own place, now that's the dream life. Sometimes marriage feels like you are caged in.
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Sounds more like you want to have break from one woman, not marriage. Getting bored?
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Wow, I don't think that's a good attitude towards marriage. You said you love her, and than just walked all over her.
It's understandable that we might need time alone here and there, but you didn't expect that your life would be the same after marriage, did you? Of course, not.
I think many of us need to find things to do WITH our spouses that makes us happy. Go to Canada with her, play Halo with her, go jogging with her, etc. There are a million things you can do with your wife/husband.
And, no offense, but this just sounds very wrong: "I just had a few good Muslim wives, but that they lived in their own apartments and I had my own place, now that's the dream life."
Women are not objects to fulfill the desires of men. Treat them with love and they'll respect you back.
Marriage is give and take. You can't just show up when the food and bed is ready and leave when you're done, bro.
The woman needs you there. If she's feeling down, then just go and comfort her for 5-10 minutes. She'll appreciate it A LOT.
Re: Married men - Do you ever wish you were single again???
Sometimes I just need a break from married life.
man, i like agha juice.
seriously, you need to connect with local mosque. if possible joing tableeghi jamaat. she will be cursing you. at that point you can put some pressure on her and ask if she could give up her unnecessary clinginess.
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Also the thing that I forgot to mention is that marriage can also cut you of from your buddies. Because my buddies are not married and my wife wouldn't want to hang out with them, nor would they like it, it would just be awkward. Instead you have to make friends with other married couples.
Re: Married men - Do you ever wish you were single again???
Wow, I don't think that's a good attitude towards marriage. You said you love her, and than just walked all over her.
It's understandable that we might need time alone here and there, but you didn't expect that your life would be the same after marriage, did you? Of course, not.
I think many of us need to find things to do WITH our spouses that makes us happy. Go to Canada with her, play Halo with her, go jogging with her, etc. There are a million things you can do with your wife/husband.
And, no offense, but this just sounds very wrong: "I just had a few good Muslim wives, but that they lived in their own apartments and I had my own place, now that's the dream life."
Women are not objects to fulfill the desires of men. Treat them with love and they'll respect you back.
Marriage is give and take. You can't just show up when the food and bed is ready and leave when you're done, bro.
The woman needs you there. If she's feeling down, then just go and comfort her for 5-10 minutes. She'll appreciate it A LOT.
Re: Married men - Do you ever wish you were single again???
Just because you are married now, doesn’t mean you can’t hang out with your buddies ALONE! I think you just need to strike the right balance and i am sure no “sane” wife would take offense to her husband hanging out with his buddies as long as you are not overdoing it.
I think you just need to strike the right balance and i am sure no “sane” wife would take offense to her husband hanging out with his buddies as long as you are not overdoing it.