Married guys

STA · August 30, 2012, 5:08pm

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ok, I have changed it tension.

Ahmed_Fayyaz · August 30, 2012, 5:08pm

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Relax..abi tu kuch kiya b nahi!!

hahahaaaaaaaaa

muqawwee123 · August 30, 2012, 5:09pm

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tension lene ka nahin dene ka ;)

STA · August 30, 2012, 5:10pm

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tlk, can you please issue admin note here. i think this thread will going to turn into another mockery thread. please issue public admin alert so we can concentrate on original topic.

I thought both are supposed to be tension free.

TLK · August 30, 2012, 5:11pm

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I am no longer an admin bro. I do have the privilege but not the authority. I am sure mods will handle it

STA · August 30, 2012, 5:12pm

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something like that.

WendyDarling · August 30, 2012, 5:16pm

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I don't know what you mean by that. But you really need to read what you write before posting it.

TLK · August 30, 2012, 5:17pm

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How can that be possible. Even if its a love marriage, its almost not possible not to have the stress of wedding night.

Decent_6Chora · August 30, 2012, 5:18pm

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wait for the time and when the time comes, you will be shocked :D

WendyDarling · August 30, 2012, 5:18pm

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@Topic. The first night is usually hard for both groom and bride. I won't start on who's under the most pressure as I don't think there's a way to tell that .. every couple is different. All you need to do is relax and not worry too much.

muqawwee123 · August 30, 2012, 5:19pm

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queen_24 · August 30, 2012, 5:21pm

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NO I dont think so! or maybe it varies from man to man!! Also its your partner who provides you a comfort zone..!!

muqawwee123 · August 30, 2012, 5:22pm

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BTW, someone told me that one of his friend waited for few months to develop relation (dosti) before doing MBA of that dosti… So much star plus

WendyDarling · August 30, 2012, 5:23pm

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Yup! And guys need to know that wedding night is not just Boom let’s get down to business. I’d recommend the couple to spend some time just talking and calm those nerves before doing anything else.

ninja_hattori · August 30, 2012, 5:24pm

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only church of scientology can provide us with instrument to measure such mental pressure

Decent_6Chora · August 30, 2012, 5:24pm

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Whatever floats the couple’s boat. Everyone is different and feel comfortable with different handling and pace…

TLK · August 30, 2012, 5:24pm

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I am sure there are some common anxieties that every couple goes through.

muqawwee123 · August 30, 2012, 5:27pm

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This thread reminds me a dialogue in Madhur Bhandharkar's 'Signal' said by a male prostitute............

queen_24 · August 30, 2012, 5:27pm

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obviously, a hadith has also been there for that!! I would quote once I find it!

TLK · August 30, 2012, 5:29pm

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Once there was a thread where I argued that Rukhsatis should be done by 10 PM and we should cut down on the crap or rasoomaat after rukhsati, so guy and gal have more time to talk.

When you make them enter at 4 AM in the room and they are already half dead because of tiredness, there is not much of verbal communication that can be expected. At that time, guy is probably thinking - O I have to consume the marriage because its my wedding night and my dulhan might be expecting that"