Re: Married guys
Once there was a thread where I argued that Rukhsatis should be done by 10 PM and we should cut down on the crap or rasoomaat after rukhsati, so guy and gal have more time to talk.
When you make them enter at 4 AM in the room and they are already half dead because of tiredness, there is not much of verbal communication that can be expected. At that time, guy is probably thinking - O I have to consume the marriage because its my wedding night and my dulhan might be expecting that"