Shaz i read all ur posts n i'm really surprised by ur repetitive statement that girls back home r sly n cunning. r ur roots not from pak? were ur mom or grandmom also british born n raised? if not do u think they were cunning too? i really hate to say but u hav too much negatives going on in ur head.
then ur saying she realli hav to change makes no sense when u urself r not willing even to hav a hair cut. wat if she doesn't actually like ur spiky hair at all. u r still insisting to keep them coz girls around u say u look good in them. but when ppl around ur wife praise or over praise her u don't like it?? do u see the same contradictions in ur thought i'm seeing?
- She changes for me but i won't
- She thinks shes looks cool n thats so annoying. But yes i'm cool coz everybody says that.
- i really want to make every effort to work it out but she has to change(wat effort r u making then?)
i actually feel sorry for the poor girl who married a guy with not only a big past but only negatives in his head. hav u told her abt ur ex? just like u guys r scared of marrying girls from back home those girls have fears of going abroad as well coz many end up finding the guys they married having current or ex girl friends , drinking probs n no moral values.