Re: MARRIED FROM BACKHOME, NOT HAPPY!!!
Naabigh it is not as bad as ur making it out, plague o both houses? I jus expressed my inner most fears or feelings here n there must be loads of ppl who go through this when they get married to someone from backhome. I am makin an effort to find out where to go from here and get alternative perspectives...also, I am a very responsible kind of man n wudnt let it get to that stage. this is like a brainstormin session for me where im exploring ideas. Also, my hair style is wkd n galz luv it, far from gayish n im nt one ov them arrogant types atall even though i wud suit it with what i am n what i av achieved but i aint. Now why i dint get married here is a long story,,,In nutshell i was with sum1 for a long tym, different religion, i convinced my family as she said she wud convert but then her mother started dramas n causing issues n she wudnt leave her family n i dint relli want her to. Anyway dat was over a yr ago, met few ppl afta dat but not d marriage type. yea i know u cud argue this is typical guy fukin arnd n den wantin dis dat....Wel i did sincerely look but i was working by dis tym n not meetin any asian galz in my field hence limited choice. I relli think there shud be some legitimate platform for future young muslims to meet up, not for me but for future generations lol i sound like malcom x now ....but yea i am aware that i have made d decision for myself n now i wanted to share other ppl's observations, experiences n knowledge to help me!