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Farrah.....umm.....he doesn't have to use my words exactly to communicate his thoughts. ** He's welcome to change the words. The point of my post was to encourage Shaz to nicely educate his wife about how things work in the UK. Perhaps she feels out of place. The second point of my post was for him to open communication with her. We're not mind readers.......we can't tell if our words and actions are offending another person.........therefore.....we need to communicate our concerns with the other person if they are hurting us. I even encouraged Shaz to contemplate his own body language toward his wife........because it's possible that maybe he's showing contempt toward her through his body language that could be causing his wife to become defensive. I put forth several theories. The OVERALL gist of my post was to encourage/motivate Shaz to educate and communicate with his wife. You seem to have **zeroed-in on just one example of a quote that I've typed in my post and not the overall content. Anyhow.......the intent of the post was a positive one.....and not intended to hurt his wife.