wish i knew it would be so difficult n i wud av never got married from backhome. There are way too many differences even though she is educated. I shudnt say it but it makes me cringe even talkin to her..... i know it sounds realy mean but i wish it wasnt d case. Sometimes i cnt sleep when i think about it n sometimes i get realy angry about it. part of me blames my parents. Also when i hear stories about girls from backhome being sly, two faced and manipulative, it puts me off even more. I dont think talkin to her about all this is going to help? dont want her to feel that the person she is married to is harbouring all these thoughts? it would nly hurt her feelings. Nonetheless, I will talk abt few major issues as and when appropriate but there are so many things i would have to keep quiet about. My main concern is can mannerisms be changed? do girls from backhome av the potential to adjust? do they realy understand if you talk to them? plz share your observations? experiences? it wud relli help!
If you are so loaded you can hire a governess to teach her the kind of manners you want her to portray. Girls in Pakistan are taught to be submissive to husbands ,she will follow your cues ones she is with you do not worry about all that
The condition you are going through is called having cold feet the difference is that people normally get cold feet feet before wedding you are having it after the wedding because it was all done so hurriedly. You and she will get over it.