Re: Marriages to Non-Pakistanis/Goras
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you guys have no idea how comfortable this thread makes me feel 
D:D
Because i am almost new (growing old in it 
) to how people see this, and was very conscious in the beginning, this thread i am going to put close to my heart and just smile the whole day .. and forever D:D
I am engaged to a dutchy .. in fact when he came to meet me in pakistan (as friends) we didnt know if we had any feelings for each other .. but when he left, my father kind of took hint of what’s going on, and he’d been the one supporting me from day 0! (zero becuz he supported me even before i told him that i liked the dutchy … yea it was a wee bit awkward conversation one bright morning … “no daddy theres nothing going on” )
and mashAllah we are getting married in Jan, and his family will be participating (who were not really too happy initially about their son being Muslim, but the mother recently verbalised her accpetance) … but they’ve always been nice to me regardless .. and i have an amazing bonding wiht my SIL and her fiance …
we’ll be having a full on traditional wedding .. like they are done … but also a reception when we come back to the netherlands … which i would like for it to be a fusion still .. a gown is on my wishlist 
the thing i love most about my in-laws is that we are a whole world (almost) in one family. my dutchy’s brother and sister have a peruvian and Egyptian partner, respectively. So no culture over-rides another, and it’s wonderful to see that there can be peace! 