Re: Marriages to Non-Pakistanis/Goras
^ i don't know mahi. maybe at one time it was easier to raise kids as the same religion as both parents were since the world was smaller and less multicultural, but i know plenty of couples now who both follow the same religion and face more or less the same challenges in raising their kids in that religion, that mixed religion couples face when raising theirs.
its not so easy to blend your religious beliefs and the open, multicultural societies that we live in nowadays, esp. in north america. in the end, i firmly believe you raise your kids to the best of your abilities, but how well they follow the religion is up to them. i've seen muslim kids raised in entirely muslim households who get up to all sorts- drinking, partying, dating, etc. right next to kids who are non-muslim or half muslim.