qtc88
July 27, 2012, 1:46pm
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Re: Marriages talks have ended help me get over heartbreak
One month.
Is not enough time for us to do things or say things and be forgiven automatically for them. Meaning, you only knew him for a month. You hadn’t been in a relationship with him for years or even monthS. He isn’t attached to you or has any obligation towards you. There is not much of an emotional relationship as of yet.
If you give him a reason to leave and that too so soon…why wouldn’t he leave? In his mind, he is ending things because he doesn’t believe you can handle conflict wisely. He is doing what’s good for him.
If you want to get over someone, try to see what you could have done to help the situation, learn and leave it alone. The minute you start blaming others…you regress and eventually start to become bitter.
Case in point…your new thread.
Do you think I am hurting the situation by sending out that email? And yeah you’re right. I am out of control with this issue. Very pathetic of me. sigh