Marriages talks have ended *help me get over heartbreak*

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: Marriages talks have ended help me get over heartbreak

@qtc88

Aha Reha, I don’t know. It’s because of all these conflicting ideas in my mind. The fact that it was easy for him to let go makes me think that his lack of empathy made him like that so it wasn’t my fault but rather the person he was.

But I said that at the spur of the moment. I was at fault for dealing with the situation in the way that I did. It’s not going to happen again, that’s for sure. Lesson learned. haha

Without knowing the guy, my guess is that it’s not his lack of empathy that allowed him to let go so easily, but rather he was being rational about the situation. No need to pursue if you think it’s not going to work. In fact, I’d say it’s commendable of him. It gives me the impression that he wasn’t just using you to pass time, but he’s serious about getting married. He’s not leading you on anymore like he could have been. So he’s not giving you false hope and stopping you from moving on. Now it’s just up to you to accept that it wasn’t going to work out anyway, so isn’t worth giving anymore thought to.