Marriages talks have ended *help me get over heartbreak*

[Reha]

Re: Marriages talks have ended help me get over heartbreak

@qtc88

I already established I’m not chasing him. I made a few efforts, but I am absolutely done. Chapter closed. I don’t know why you’re trying to attack my character. I am not over-confident about anything. I say it in the humblest way possible that God has blessed me with a lot of his goodness. Alhumdulillah and Mashallah. May I find a great match Insha’Allah. And yes, I don’t like to be the chaser at all. It is much better being chased and actually cherished.

Before this incident, the guy definitely liked me more than I liked him. There was more of that “chasing” going on, when he would actually be the one to call and do a lot to show he cared. I don’t know what you are trying to imply.

There definitely seemed to be the influence of nazar because of the fact that it all broke upon me revealing this to a friend of mine. She was the only one I spoke to about, and she has a very envious nature. That’s what gets me sad.

THere is such a thing as nazar but in this situation…no.

You admitted to doing something he found unacceptable. There is no room to blame your friend’s nazar for this.

One more thing…being educated has very little to do with your success in personal relationships in my experience. You can be a PhD but still be dim as a doorknob when it comes to dealing with people. I’ve seen some very well educated people not know how to so much as speak to people in a way they find acceptable.

Its got to do with your maturity level, respect for him, etc and in this case…by your own admittance…you haven’t shown any.