Marriages talks have ended *help me get over heartbreak*

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Re: Marriages talks have ended help me get over heartbreak

@redvelvet

And I’m sure that there are many women out there who have a happy married life…one that other women around them are jealous of…but their marriages have not broken. Have you considered those examples as well? I’m not saying that the evil eye does not exist, but I don’t think it’s the only possibility.

Good looking girls and guys…including doctors…get rejected all the time. Compatibility is not just based on looks and profession.

My intention is not to offend but if you are SOO confident about your looks and personality…if you firmly believe that you are such a great catch…then why are YOU the one chasing him around and begging him to marry you? If you believe you’re that great…then shouldn’t he be seeking you out? Would you rather marry a guy who WANTS to be with you…or would you rather be with someone whom you had to chase after and convince? What image of yourself do you wish to convey and which option has more izzat for you and your family?

I already established I’m not chasing him. I made a few efforts, but I am absolutely done. Chapter closed. I don’t know why you’re trying to attack my character. I am not over-confident about anything. I say it in the humblest way possible that God has blessed me with a lot of his goodness. Alhumdulillah and Mashallah. May I find a great match Insha’Allah. And yes, I don’t like to be the chaser at all. It is much better being chased and actually cherished.

Before this incident, the guy definitely liked me more than I liked him. There was more of that “chasing” going on, when he would actually be the one to call and do a lot to show he cared. I don’t know what you are trying to imply.

There definitely seemed to be the influence of nazar because of the fact that it all broke upon me revealing this to a friend of mine. She was the only one I spoke to about, and she has a very envious nature. That’s what gets me sad.