Marriages talks have ended *help me get over heartbreak*

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Re: Marriages talks have ended help me get over heartbreak

@qtc88

I don’t know you two. It was definitely the evil eye in this case. Hear me out:

Me - I’m considered to be good looking in the Pakistani community. 5’5, slim, fair-skin. I’m also highly educated and successful for a 23-year old.
The guy - also very educated, humble, down to earth, and he was an actual doctor.

I was having nothing but positively feelings about him from the time we communicated. I shared my liking for this guy with my friend who has always been envious of me. It was a mistake. Since that day, I felt nothing was going right, and my feelings towards him just changed for the worst without any reasonable basis.

Lagi hai uski nazar…

And I’m sure that there are many women out there who have a happy married life…one that other women around them are jealous of…but their marriages have not broken. Have you considered those examples as well? I’m not saying that the evil eye does not exist, but I don’t think it’s the only possibility.

Good looking girls and guys…including doctors…get rejected all the time. Compatibility is not just based on looks and profession.

My intention is not to offend but if you are SOO confident about your looks and personality…if you firmly believe that you are such a great catch…then why are YOU the one chasing him around and begging him to marry you? If you believe you’re that great…then shouldn’t he be seeking you out? Would you rather marry a guy who WANTS to be with you…or would you rather be with someone whom you had to chase after and convince? What image of yourself do you wish to convey and which option has more izzat for you and your family?