marriage

[NaanGuard]

Re: marriage

@Bobby1

I have never been without a relationship in my life and every relationship has been great. It boils down to your expectations and if you have unrealistic expectations then you are bound to be disappointed. I could never understand the marrying a stranger bit though. People here get to know a person for a few years before they chose to commit their life. People should get into a relationship where they are emotionally, psychologically and financially independent. I cant imagine coming home to no one waiting for me. Great relationships don’t just happen, you have to make them happen by doing nice things for each other on a daily basis.many of you are living with parents so truly don’t understand how painful being alone can be. Nature has designed us to be a social animal and you can’t override hard wiring.

It’s funny you say this…cause I’ve been perpetually single my whole life and am perfectly fine coming home to no one. Just shows how people can be completely different. Of course I have my parents and I understand your point about being “truly alone.” You do need other people in your life.. friends, family, etc..

I’ve talked to girls for marriage and stuff..but I haven’t dated/been in a relationship. But I agree that you shouldn’t get into a relationship where you aren’t emotionally, psychologically and financially ready.