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companionshipzz (this is a pretty vast thing, but basically having someone for you no matter what etc.), and babymaking.
why marriage is needed for that?
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mm it is not.
its like A gets you B. but A is not the only way to get B.
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ok ok we promise we wont look down at you or your family. Go ahead.
too late...am already married now I can make as many babies as I want with no questions asked :p
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damn
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Peace philosophy
If anything I fear Allah (SWT) never to equate anything to Him, So Mighty is He above all things. He is my witness that everything I say ... I say not to claim in any way what Authority He has ... but rather to rightfully place all Power, Grace and Beauty to Him which results from His Mercy.
For sure all Good that comes from me is due to Him and any bad that comes from me is a result of my own short comings. For a surety this sinful soul has far more shortcomings than good, but I do try ... Never do I claim to be God rather I am amongst the most ardent defenders of Tawhid ... which is that There is no Power Except with Him ... He is God Alone Most Unique ... Rather I say that those people who deny God His Right over us, who decide for themselves without consulting the Legislated law of God are the ones who are taking for themselves Rights that belong to God ... not I ...
My comment to you philosophy was one made in jest ... :)
But I did give a serious answer as well ... you asked the opinion of people how marriage was considered by them ... then you call them boring and say uff ... can't be ... I say if you ask someone of their opinion then their answer is personal to them ... but the debate you really want to have (correct me if I am wrong) is whether our "consideration as marriage being a spiritual thing" is misplaced ... and in reality it is not a spiritual/religious thing at all. Am I correct? If not .. then forgive me for my inefficiency ... but I truly think that you are going to contest the validity of the idea that marriage is a spiritual/religious matter. I am not God so I could not possibly know for sure ... however, I can take a good a guess, based on certain clues in your previous discourse.
haha hahaaaa. oh boy. i'd tell you but,
you can keep guessing what my true intentions were. and i'm sure you'll never even get anywhere close to getting it right.
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companionshipzz (this is a pretty vast thing, but basically having someone for you no matter what etc.), and babymaking.
mhm....don't need marriage for it
but sunehri needs mummy papaaaaaa. so yayy.
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too late...am already married now I can make as many babies as I want with no questions asked :p
the world population = 7 billion.
yaad rakhna while making babies.
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LOL!!
Don’t worry..I only want 2..no more!!! 
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what if your hubby orders you to make like 10? :O
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The baby incubation system belongs to me 
…I say 2, and that is all its gonna be 
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I think religion and the social stuff help u follow a guideline...which are mostly common sense any way.
Marriage is the unconditional companionship between two individuals. You're there for each other, all the time. You create a family unit, procreate because you want a product of your bonding. I think that's what it is.
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why marriage is needed for that?
Well true that it isn't needed but by getting married, you're agreeing to be committed. Well actually u can technically be committed even without marriage but then there would be too many other issues to worry about.
So I guess in the end it does come to social and religious dynamics.
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Well true that it isn't needed but by getting married, you're agreeing to be committed. Well actually u can technically be committed even without marriage but then there would be too many other issues to worry about.
So I guess in the end it does come to social and religious dynamics.
Social, religious ... and legal too, I guess
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Peace philosophy
So are you gonna reveal yet, as you mentioned in the OP?
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What, you're giving up already? ;)
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Social, religious ... and legal too, I guess
legal?
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legal?
for inheritance purposes, child needs to be legaly yours.
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hahahahha at the last line.
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I think religion and the social stuff help u follow a guideline...which are mostly common sense any way.
Marriage is the unconditional companionship between two individuals. You're there for each other, all the time. You create a family unit, procreate because you want a product of your bonding. I think that's what it is.
You said " Marriage is the unconditional companionship between two individuals" and in the same breath said;
"You're there for each other, all the time. You create a family unit, procreate because you want a product of your bonding. I think that's what it is"
Kia yeh Khula Tazad nahee...lol
it is like conditioning unconditionally.
In fact Marriage is "conditioned" all the way from its very inception to its collapse and even beyond.
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Marriage in not just companionship, or two 'committed' people living lives together.
First: Marriage is between man and a woman.
Second: The condition is not imposed by one on the other. It is 'accepted' by both individuals.
Hence, what gora kala tries to say it is some way a conditioned (or forced) act then it is not true. No one puts (or should put) gun to two individuals.
It is supposed to be a willful act by two opposite sex members.