I hear people saying “I’m planning to get married…” “I’m getting married” “I want to get married” etc. Why don’t I hear anyone saying that they don’t want to get married? Is it something THAT important? I mean, can’t you survive without it? I’ve seen some people who aren’t married and…they’re…you know…normal…and fine…just like everyone else. What if someone doesn’t have plans to get married for some time or may be doesn’t want to get married…why would his parents force him to get married and be hurt if he doesn’t want to? I just don’t understand why. The only reason I would want to get married is because I’m committed to someone, other than that I just don’t see a reason as to why I should get married. There are so many GOOD things in life that I can do and be blessed by God and get all the sawaab. Shaadi se kya special ho jata hai?
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Shadi se yeh special ho jata hai, ke you get a life partner. With whom you can share your life, thoughts and build your home together.
You'll get extremely lonely even if you have dozens of frieds to hang out with, but dont have a life partner. Its just you feel complete.
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lol Sadaf…reading the first line of your reply, I can bet you are somehow related to my daadi amma 
Destinee…I used to think just like that back then (i.e. before marriage) but now i think i wasn’t right in my approach…how can i imagine my life without my kids…n kids can’t be there any other way according to my book. Plus…I don’t long for a best friend anymore…
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^ 
and yeah kids 
totally adorable, cant imagine a life without having my son.
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hai Allah
Larkeyaan shaadi ke baad kitni payari batain karteen hain 
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lolz
i personally marriage and singlehood have its own challenges.... one is not rosier than the other.
but if ur blessed with a sincere life partner then i'd rather be married than stay single.
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shadi ka laddo as lado hai jo khaaye woh pachtaaey aur jo nah khayee woh bhi pachtaaye- i heard that yesterday from a friend...
but i will tell you ... shadi nahe karni - shadi hai barbadi *grin.
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aji janab ji larkiyaan shaade k baad larki nae rehte hein voh aurat ban jaate hein samjhe aap
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woh [CR] te hum mashAllah se kumwaray hein…hum ko kia pata larkian shadi ke baad kia banti hein waise itna pata hai without chanda-battery-cell ke bolnay wali radio zaroor banjati hein jisko baand kerna kisi insaan ke baas mein to nahin hai. 
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'He that hath a wife and children hath given hostages to fortune.'
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destinee: u havent heard Sara yet..didint ya? :D
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hahaha nae fren aesa kisi kisy kosh qsmat banday k saath hota hi k shade k baad larki yani wife achee achee baatein karte hoo koi toh shadee ke 5 rouj baad hi shuhar ke kaan khenchne pe aajatee hein aur fer hoti hi shohar ki pitai hehe:D kaee bar aesa nae b hota but zaroori nae har larkki shade k baad ache methi baatein kre
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Waisay, har normal person ki physical as well as spiritual need shadee hotee hai....jahaan tak logoon kay poochnay kaa sawaal hai, might be they r looking for u for someone:) ......aur haan shadee kaa ziyadaa mazaa, i believe jaldee hoonay main hai...waisay i cannot gurantee this comment of mine cz I am not married
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acha
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Bhai Mian zara fata-fat apna farz poora karein takey hum bhi apney honay walay bachon ki shaadian karwa sakein. Rub Rakha jee, baree dhoor sey chal kar aaye hain aap hamaray paas.
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its very simple.. the only reason ure complaining bout it is cuz things are gettin out of hand and nearly every girl u know is talkin bout marriage and marriage only…
which probably means the 18 yr olds u used to be surrounded by have been replaced by 24 yr olds (and up) … ofcourse they’re all talkin bout marriage…
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There are so many GOOD things in life that I can do and be blessed by God and get all the sawaab. Shaadi se kya special ho jata hai?
<= then two people do so many GOOD things in life together and be blessed by God and get all the sawaab.
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gurya janu its been an EXPECTED act that u reach a point in life, where u r no longer by yourself, but u get shared with a partner..
liking or not, it gets ‘enforced’ like a law, and followed..
and sure, there are people, who dont have plans for marriage, reasons can be personal and vary, bottom line, they dont WANT to, its upto them..
its just, US, have trouble digesting this fact.. woah? no marriage? why? HOW? million questions..
i say, there is a time for everything .. its ALL your decision, u dont wanna get married, sure, its YOUR decision.. i can see decisions like these getting frowned upon, but hey, people who are TRYING to force wouldnt be there all the time, they SHOULDNT be forcing this..
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Im not planning on getting married. Ever.
There be happy.