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Am i the only one who wudnt do any batameezi when rishta came? its not happened to me at all, but from wat i’ve herd, its a pretty degrading experience… sitting there, acting “proper” and whatnot, and they juststare at yhou and reject u if ur not pretty enough… 
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sara jee pakar kay joooti maar diya karein unn ko ...jabb woh ghar say niklein :D
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jab woh ghar se niklein??? nahee…mein tu aison ko andar he na ghusnay doon:D sara…aik dafa yeh experience kar lo phir tumhein pata chal jaye ga kesa feel hota hai:D
Wesay ho sakta hai luckily tumharay saath aisa na jesa aksar hota hai 
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kiya waqayee mazah atta hai ??
coool i gotta experiment this, ill ask my mom to let that AUNTY come over who has been insisting to see me and i have rejecting…now when she will come i can do some EMM stuff with her and then give her my EMM personal card 
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I understand this situation as I am personally facing the same situation… There are many aspects we have to consider.
People who look up to these high professionally committed poeple are ignorant about the real life style, committments of these professionals. What they see is the apparant charisma, door key dhool suhaaney
Such people have no aim of their own. They can just live like a symbiotic manner with you, lack self confidence and a realistic outlook for life.
What would you say of people who just want their daughters to become doctors so as to be able to procure a good proposal? Is it not the right of an ordinary girl who is a good human to be able to procure a good proposal???
Among doctors, it is not as simple as a doctor must get a proposal of doctors, there is further grading within doctors. A surgeon will look down upon a pathologist, a radiologist will think anasthesia is crap. Moreoever, if someone is settled for some years, will look up to doctor proposals of the well settled doctor families so as to accumulate as much as he/she can. What to say, the situation is worse brother.
Nobody looks at the fact how good human you are. How much you understand the relationship of marriage or how much you are commited to fullfil its obligations and responsibilities. Everything is replced by one sole criteria, “How much you can produce”
I’d recommend you to develop an outlook towards your life and forget about these people. Those who’ll know your worth will pick you up not based on anything else but the person inside you.
Goodluck
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^ Quite sensible. One of my friends is in medical school, and when he meets girls, he refuses to tell them he is in medical school. He just behaves as he normally behaves, rather than morphing into his professional behavior he has at work. He doesn't want a golddigger. I personally feel that many desi girls are golddiggers. Like, he is laid back, etc. Needless to say, he doesn't get much action.
I have dared him to sit on the beach in his scrubs with some fruit drink. He wont do it, but I know he would get hit on at a higher frequency.
:D
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aisay to na kaho :S:S:S:rolleyes:
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Lahore 981: Thats exactly where I am getting at, that ppl now a days are about what u seems to be or how good u seems to be out in a society. During the time of doing rishta’s not many aunties and uncles pay attention to as how good a background og gal’s family is, instead goes on and look high standard bahoos for their nikamay larkay’s 
Anyways, I shouldnt apply this to eveyrone, b/c i think there are still good ppl left some where on this planet.
The way I approach is, that I have brothers too and a mother too, so i keep in mind and see that my mom don’t end up making the same mistake neither do i that almost some of the ppl making around!
PCG: Your fren indeed is a humble person. hi5 to him! can u tell him about me
Sac: 
R u chef??
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^^ no…but for you, I can be 
well the thing is people have got a more so called practical approach now. They don’t go for the old values , the family background and stuff. Its not just for girls rishtas, even for guys the first and at times the only thing that is required is how much the guy is earning.
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^ so true, may be the expenses now a days are too much that ppl THINK that having MONEY is everything.
Anyways, Plz can u be my chef :D?
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^^ I can be your doctor. Hey why don't you persue a doctor for a change u know ;) see what it feels like marrying an occupation :P
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waisey its not about being a doctor or an engineer, its about earning more really. Like my mom married all of my sisters to businessmen. Parents are right in their own thinking when they consider the future of their daughters but we hvae to value the family background, education and if you ask me even the caste
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is that a NO ?
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lolz
no..I’m still thinking about it..
do you have a CV?
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CV boulay tou??
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wohi jis mein ek pic lagi hoti hey..neechey name ,address, phone numbers, hobbies, job experience and pay shay ke baray mein info hoti hey
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ghadhay RESUME!!
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