Marriage, what should I do ? :S

[ZareenKhan]

Re: Marriage, what should I do ? :S

@dinar

Well Zareen this is what i want to figure out why is it that something simple as this could be this complicated i mean shouldn’t it be like your parents choose and you go for it; because I think ones whole life his parents keep growing their kids. I think atleast they should have the opportunity to choose their bahu . Now i dont wanna hear kay do you wanna live with her or your parents.** I think a parent knows very well what his kids wants**.

I most certainly agree with you! That’s why i want my parents to make my decision but they tell me they can’t, its my life i have to make it myself and i think it sucks :(. But it does make sense because we are adults and we should have an important say in such important decisions of our life. For example, if your mom feels she wants you to settle down so that she can play with her grandkids, well thats rather sweet BUT is that wise at the expense of getting you married when you might not be ready for it mentally? you know what i am saying?.

If you are ready and the only thing that is holding you back is that you can do better, well unless there is alot you are letting go of in this rishta i don’t see why you should say no. Because this feeling you will get anytime you are going to commit to someone.