Re: Marriage…the right way?!
This comment is debatable.
Firstly, our culture follows indian lifestyle because we are inherently indians. Before anyone jump up and down and correct me that we are pakistani and not indian. Let me be specific.
Like we can call people of different countries like kuwait, jordon, yemen palestine or syria collectively called arab similarly we belong to indus valley civilization and can be rightly termed as indians.
We are wrongly insecure about our roots. Indian culture is not automatically unislamic or bad as we love to preceive. Arab culture is not automatically islamic. Just like we have a mehndi function they have silmilar funtions where they enjoy and have fun. And they can be pretty unislamic even by liberal standards
see
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=127007