Marriage that doesn't last

[mizsani]

Re: Marriage that doesn’t last

@xenaba

I knew a girl who sold off all her bari jewelry once and the weird part was no one noticed. She would buy all sorts of things and shower people with gifts and show how much money she now has (she didnt have much before marriage). Then she started stealing from her in laws as well. When the in laws asked her to hand over the jewelry so that they could calculate the zakaat on it, she kept procrastinating and then created this whole situation where she hired the maid’s husband to act as a robber and act as if stole the jewelry case and all. It was so bad and the boy was completely stunned when the whole story came out to be true. The poor in laws were so shocked and shareef that they didn’t even bother to ask for money back on the stuff she sold and stole. And if you think thats bad, check out the cherry on top - the girl’s father asked for the mehr and jahaiz back :S
I don’t think you should ask for the money or gifts back because they’re already going through such a bad time during their divorce(such as the groom in the story above), its more like adding insult to injury if you expect your gifts back

If she sold the bari then thts upto her.. it was a gift and she could do whatever with it but stealing from ur inlaws? thts wierd!