There was no traditional thing that my mil came to see me or talked to me or he wanted to see me, or he was looking for a rishta or we fall in love instead it was different. He saw my pictures from some party called my home and left a message for my parents that I have seen your daughter in pictures and here is my number and I belong to this family. My dad heard the message and told him I am coming to meet you next week. He was in South East states at that time, so my parents went lived in his house for two or three days,looked at his work place environment, met his friends enjoyed and told him we like you, you can talk to our daughter now and you both can decide after that. We chatted or talked on phone for 2-3mnths and felt like we were meant for each other, choices, life style, different things. So after three mnths we got married and AH we are so happy together. AH 