Re: Marriage of my choice
Iftikhaar bhai, I would recommend that you grow a pair and tell your parents what you are going to do. Don't be a little baby, if you're old enough to love a woman, be old enough to tell you mummy and daddy that you're gonna marry her. What's next, your parents will be telling you how to live your life, how to run your house hold, how to raise your kids, how to treat your wife, gimme a break.
Secondly, your parents have no business assuming your woman will cheat on you, nobody knows the future but the Almighty. When I got married, my parents were SO against it because I married a white American. But at that time, i had the pair to tell them that I was going to do what I wanted and they could deal with it. Today, my white American wife is a better Muslim than I ever was. My parents ADORE her and we've been married for 7 blissful years.
So never say never. Good luck.