Re: Marriage n parents
Exactly RB. IF they are not speaking about it openly then maybe you need to do it yourself. By staying quiet u r only reducing ur own chances. They don;t even know that u r in love with this guy, maybe they are assuming that u wouldn;t want to move to a different country and would rather find someone close by. They are treating him like any other rishta from a different country. I know if I got a rishta from another country my parents wouldn;t be too enthusiastic about it. I think Canada is the furthest they r willing to go that too not verrrrrry willingly. Now if the rishta was from a guy who I really wanted to be with, regardless of where he lives, then ofcourse there would be another factor to consider before anyone made a final decision. You really need to stop being so secretive about it now. Its ur life at stake. Would u rather lose this guy or keep up the facade and maintain a false image of yourself in front of your parents? If you r mature enough to be romantically involved with a guy and be thinking marraige then u should surely be mature enough to speak about it too.