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Marriage is never abt effortles lob b/w 2 ppl , it is all abt hardwork and committment…Nomatter how wonderful both bride & groom may be ..when two ppl from diverse backgrounds , holding varied opinions & life experiences with different up bringing ..get together …challenges aboundmarriage is somthing abt two ppl their families and their children and really it is adhering to the Quran and sunnah that can smoooth the path of marriage and the challenges that com with it…
Marriage indeed is a jihad of a lifetim .. an inner struggle to becom better and following certain guide lines …that mak it easy for us …
Start must be with the right beginning ..and the right beginning is the right choice of spouse …it is no sin to desire an outwardly Beautiful companion..hmm inner beauty can mean different things to different ppl but as believers inner to us should mean a fair sense of taqwa ot the belief of Allah almighty …
when enterin in marriage life ..we must need to be aware of its purpose in the “eyes” of allah mighty..In H Quran u beter find alot of guidelines …
Marriage isnt abt the a big , beautiful house with expensive furniture brought in Bride’s jaheez as we r often mistakenly practise in ths region… instead the greatest " DROWY " in a marriage is the awareness on the part of the spouses that creating a home is abt creating tranquillity and peace.Ths tranquillity is never achieved over night …u really need som hardwork and much tim is required to achieve a level of equilibrium to mak it a successful unison…
Islam has clearly defined the separate roles of man and women …Makin an marriage successful ..requires a lot of patient , kindness humility, sacrifice, empathy ,love , understanding, forgivness and hardwork …in short it is all abt takin on the challenges that arise and makin in a success of our tim on earth with the help of allah almighty…Once we realised that marriage is all abt pleasing Allah and perfecting our religion ..both spouses will continue to strive and make their marital lives success Inshallah …God bless us with sweet spouses and help us in followin the Golden Principles of Islam ! Ameeeen
with best wishes and regards
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…Ap ka joo dil karai woo karai …muge bata nah tha bata diya …kise ka sath koi zabardastii nahi …
only if my angel of truth accept! i want to marry her